I’m delighted by a book I’m reading right now called “Seductress: The Women Who Ravished the World and Their Lost Art of Love”

I love history, goddess, divine feminine and the power of turn on so this book had my name all over it.

I grew up feeling completely perplexed by attraction, relationship and personal magnetism because I just didn’t feel that confident and felt like there was some secret to all of it that I had apparently missed.

When I got to college, away from the small rural community I grew up in, I felt a new sense of freedom to get to choose who I wanted to be in this space where no one knew me. 

And some part of me, without ever really intentionally deciding it or saying it out loud, decided I wanted to be attractive, magnetic. I suddenly didn’t care anymore about all the things I thought made me not attractive in the past like being lanky, no curves, a bump in my nose, I made a decision that I was hot.

That’s the thing we’re not often taught in a society obsessed with beauty — that hot is an energy. Anyone can turn on this energy no matter what they look like and suddenly be the most attractive and magnetic person in the room.

And that’s what happened for me, I embodied that energy and I could feel heads turn every time I stepped into a room. I knew I could attract anyone I wanted and be treated like a queen, not because I was the most traditionally beautiful in a room, but because energetically I was turned on and it was as if light emanated from me.

All of this and this amazing Seductress book has reminded me that the SAME is true in business! Marketing and selling are just another form of attraction. 

I’m not emailing and marketing because I have to to get people to buy my offers, no, no, no, no. That’s like being tapped into the energy of desperation and chasing after someone you want to date with neediness and fear, one of the surest ways to make sure that person runs away, fast.

And the same is true in business. I would say the majority of women who aren’t consistently making money in their businesses are showing up with an energy of desperation hoping someone “asks them out” (ie buys their offer) and I’m proposing something radically different.

I’m proposing that you tap into your turned on energy as a seductress and use your siren’s song to call in soulmate clients who just can’t turn away rather than desperately trying to hunt down clients, who in turn consistently run away and feel just out of reach.

Do you feel the difference?

Can you imagine what it might feel like for you to show up in your business with that level of confidence, certainty and turned on energy?

What would be different in your business? What message would you be sharing, what offer would you create, and would you give yourself a raise and increase your prices if you were tapped into that energy?

This is the revolutionary way that I run my business (and life) and how my clients tap into an inner power that gives them the next level clarity and confidence to show up big and bold, fast.

It might sound overly confident (luckily I don’t believe in such a thing) but I know if I were single that I could turn on the seductress energy and walk into any gathering and attract whoever I want.

So why wouldn’t the same be true for business? 

Why wouldn’t you be able to tune into the same attractive energy to call in soulmate clients rather than chasing after them?

Of course this isn’t going to resonate for everyone because our modern society has been so brainwashed for years into believing that turned on powerful women are dangerous and bad, but that’s bullshit.

This lie had to be widespread in order to control powerful women throughout history because it would be quite dangerous to the patriarch to have a bunch of empowered women who know they can have, be and do anything with their turned on energy and life force. 

If women would have remembered who they really are and what they’re capable of they wouldn’t have been controllable which would have been lethal to the powers in charge.

And so many women are still asleep to this dormant power that smolders inside of them, you might even be one of them.

You can feel this power pulling at you but then you slip back into the second guessing and “who am I” because you’ve been taught that you’re not good enough from just about every angle since you were born. 

And it’s not until you have the audacity to remember your inner goddess, the primal creation energy that birthed this entire universe and learn to tap back into it that you’ll see it doesn’t matter what you look like, what your body shape is, if you have enough certifications or experience, NONE of that can compete with your inner siren and turned on goddess.

So this is my invitation to you to remember who you really are, remember the power that courses through your veins.

Remember that you are the sovereign queen of your own life. 

Remember that divine goddess dwells within you.

That hot is an energy, turn on is a choice and your life force energy is the most magnetic thing in existence.

Stop chasing after clients and money and call in ALL you desire with the unstoppable siren’s song of your soul. 

And when you do this, get ready for life to roll out the red carpet and to have a long list of admirers (whether suitors, clients or both) available on demand.