You don’t usually hear from me on the weekends. But I had a recent experience I knew would resonate with you.

For those who want the summary, here ya go:

When you’re not living your truth, you will settle for all kinds of situations and experiences that drain and exhaust you.

But as soon as you step into who you really are and begin living your dreams. You literally won’t be able to tolerate the negativity anymore. Not physically or emotionally. And you will have to choose. Will you slide back into the patterns of your past or will you step forward to stand in your light?

The fear you have about stepping forward will vanish the moment you make a decision, and you’ll stand with unparalleled confidence and clarity.

For those who want the full story…

I took on a project a few months back. It served me at the time. It was a great learning experience, it helped me really understand and connect with my clients.

But the ripeness, the perfection of it has passed. Even though I said I’d stay longer, my spirit is saying enough. I physically and emotionally can’t tolerate it. As I’ve stepped into my own truth these types of situations come up less and less. You know when to say yes, when to say no, and when to back away before you feel the need to run.

I’m seeing it trigger old demons of needing to be perfect, to make others happy, to make others think I’m special, things that I thought were long gone. And I’ve chosen to stare this situation in the face. It’s not my responsibility to save this project. One of my personal mantras is to stay fixated on being useful. I am no longer useful in this situation. I’m like a band-aid covering up the solution that this project really needs.

And so I’m letting it go. I release it. Because the integrity to hold up your end of a commitment is no longer valuable when that commitment starts to negatively impact you.

Your Call to Action:

So what have you been holding on to for way too long? What do you know in your heart is no longer serving you, but every time you think of stepping away your mind is filled with other people’s opinions and a whole lotta ‘shoulds’?

To Living Your Truth!
xoxo Jessica

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xoxo Jess